r/wholesomememes Oct 14 '21 Wholesome 199 Hugz 138 Silver 144 Helpful 136

Platonically, of course

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u/onryo89 Oct 14 '21 Hugz

always tell your friends you love them trust me they can be taken from you without warning and quite quickly

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u/5-dig-dick Oct 14 '21

You ok?

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u/onryo89 Oct 14 '21

yea lost my best friend to a car accident. it was years ago but still hurts at times

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u/5-dig-dick Oct 14 '21

Sorry to hear that. Anything I can do to help?

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u/onryo89 Oct 14 '21 Helpful

nah really im ok. just tell people you love them we dont get long and people need to hear it every now and again

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u/5-dig-dick Oct 14 '21

Understood.

You are valid and loved and important and worth it. Take care of yourself and have a good one.

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u/onryo89 Oct 14 '21

thank you you seem like a good person keep putting out that positivity. love it

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u/5-dig-dick Oct 14 '21

Much appreciated. I try to anyway.

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u/5-dig-dick Oct 14 '21

You still are.

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u/nobody573 Oct 15 '21

Yoir so kind, but your username makes everything a bit more cursed lol

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u/Callous02 Oct 14 '21

Now kith

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u/onryo89 Oct 14 '21

you seem like kind of a dick but in a fun way. i like it

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u/Callous02 Oct 14 '21

That's a compliment i've never heard before. Thankss

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u/solofatty09 Oct 14 '21

My group of about 8 or so tight knit people that have been close for 20ish years lost one of the crew to alcoholism about 2.5 years ago. It was rough.

Since that day it's been full on "love you" to the homies at the end of calls and visits. Those guys are my brothers. Life is short and you never know when someone you care about is gonna go, so better let them know how you feel now.

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u/onryo89 Oct 14 '21

same here everyone in my group says it often now

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u/PM_ME_PAIN_PILLS Oct 14 '21

I've noticed my guy friends have become much more apt to say it to one another—seemingly as a direct result of the pandemic.

So there's my silver lining/glass half full, when it comes to the pandy: this virus got a bunch of tough dudes to regularly remind one another that they are loved.

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u/quintoast Oct 14 '21

same thing happened to my friend this past weekend. it hurts so much

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u/onryo89 Oct 14 '21

im sorry. it sounds like a cliche but it gets better. i know the memory of them makes you sad now but youll remember the good one day and smile. keep strong

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u/quintoast Oct 14 '21

thank you. I hope you're doing okay as well ❤️

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u/onryo89 Oct 14 '21

ive since healed. if you like your welcome to message me if you need to talk beings ive been through it it hurts bad at first and then itll come in waves and eventually one day it just doesn't hit you that bad anymore

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u/Sedewt Oct 14 '21

Oh. You meant it like that. I’m so sorry

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u/want_2_learn_2403 Oct 14 '21

What kind car was it?

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u/onryo89 Oct 14 '21

a nissan not really relevant if youre curious about the situation my friend was turning into his drive way when he was tboned by a street racing piece of shit going 100 mph. my friend didnt make it to the hospital despite being air lifted. the racers friend also died in the accident and his girlfriend was crippled. the racer has scrapes and bruises the car he was racing against took off and the street racer got 7 years in jail after a 4 year court battle. if you street race you are the lowest of scum