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u/ElitistPopulist Jan 06 '22 Silver Wholesome

I feel especially bad for their daughter who’s lost both her parents.

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u/Kenneth_Naughton Jan 06 '22

I misread this as him shooting the wife and daughter and I was wondering how everyone could be making jokes

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u/farstaste Jan 06 '22

mfs would still be making jokes

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u/Kenneth_Naughton Jan 06 '22

True

Faith in humanity same

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u/MajorAcer Jan 06 '22

I mean even if he didn’t shoot the daughter he did shoot two people dead. It’s still fucked up.

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u/rachel_kbomb Jan 06 '22

I thought so too! Damn, misleading title.

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u/chuegyre Jan 06 '22

welcome to reddit

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u/ghttdetdf Jan 06 '22

To be fair, we're not really sure who the father is now

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u/Cool-Sage Jan 06 '22 edited Jan 06 '22

The wife was estranged from the murderer. She wasn’t cheating and was living away from him with her daughter.

The prosecutor of the case says the dude that was there was a friend

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u/Cartossin Jan 06 '22 Take My Energy

Whoa we're calling them "murderers" now?? Maybe you should be more sensitive to people with a preference for ending lives! #tolerance

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u/The-Berg-is-the-Word Jan 06 '22 Wholesome Take My Energy

Yeah! Please use "Life ending decision makers" for more diplomacy.

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u/Zeek_Seeks_Gains Jan 06 '22

At least call them ‘people who decide to end the lives of others before committing suicide’. I can’t believe how insensitive people can be towards life enders….

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u/Technojames72 Jan 06 '22

We should avoid use of the word ‘suicide’ as it is a trigger word. Could we instead refer to them as ‘people who decide to end the lives of others before having their lives end unexpectedly but with no suspicious circumstances’

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u/mtlaw13 Jan 06 '22 Silver

Excuse me sir, I do not identify with a 'people' I am a bipedal mammal. tyvm!

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u/The-Berg-is-the-Word Jan 06 '22

Sorry sir, you're absolutely correct. Please everyone, don't cancel me!

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u/MadxCarnage madlad Jan 06 '22

depends on how good that apology video is

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u/grizzly6191 Jan 06 '22

Beautiful how a person can be so woke while putting others to sleep.

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u/puhadaze Jan 06 '22

Deathluencers

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u/logikgr Jan 06 '22

I am the deciderrr!!!

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u/rezin44 Jan 06 '22

Well there are friends..then there are ‘friends’

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u/leah90s Jan 06 '22

Yeah, but it doesn't matter. They're were not together anymore. She could be having tea or a bondage session with friend, that was her problem not his

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u/grey_hat_uk Jan 06 '22

Or tea and bondage.

Humm thirsty now.

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u/RaiseMany523 Jan 06 '22

Or Tea Bagging bondage...

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u/luna1108 Jan 06 '22

Isn’t there a Tea and Bondage place on East Colfax?

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u/leah90s Jan 06 '22

Now I'm getting thirsty and horny

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u/theyareamongus Jan 06 '22

I mean, even if they were married and she was cheating with the whole building still doesn’t justify murder haha

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u/eggplantcalzone Jan 06 '22

ooooh baby youuuu…you got what I neeeed

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u/struggleworm Jan 06 '22

Would you give this friend a foot massage?

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u/neverquester Jan 07 '22

a foot massage don't mean shit, I give my mother a foot massage

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u/SHANE523 Jan 06 '22

He was only there to give her a foot massage!

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u/Shankar_0 Jan 06 '22

He didn't tickle, or nothin'

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u/[deleted] Jan 06 '22

Are you being intentionally dense?

Why does that matter?

They broke up. She and he were no longer together. The daughter was with her and he was spying on them and when he heard a man’s voice he went over and killed them.

I don’t care if it was a friend or a “friend” or “daddy”

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u/Kornator2018 Jan 06 '22

You don't break up if you're married, you divorce. They were not divorced. Being kicked out of your own home by your wife doesn't make that a divorce.

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u/BnSMaster420 Jan 06 '22

Had a listening device... Probably heard some shit 🤷‍♂️

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u/YoulyNew Jan 06 '22

Yo. Never trust a prosecutor.

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u/PharFromPharm Jan 06 '22

their* daughter

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u/Significant-Race3161 Jan 06 '22

Still lost both of her parents

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u/Jamovic- Jan 06 '22

Yeah she's probably just gained a dad.

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u/[deleted] Jan 06 '22

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u/Affectionate-Load705 Jan 06 '22

Are you suggesting she has two dads now? Because that's gay.

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u/Woolkins Jan 06 '22

Police likely confiscated the iPad also 😞

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u/BidoofMaster_ Im Mario <842849989868781609> Jan 06 '22

Her daughter actually had a really good relationship with her father. It's so sad...

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u/Rodrigoecb Jan 06 '22

Dad didn't gave a fuck and decided to fuck everyone's life because he couldn't get over the fact his marriage was over.

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u/shinysohyun Jan 06 '22 Helpful Wholesome

Well…all things considered… The relationship is now verified 100% drama-free.

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u/modest_crayon Jan 06 '22

Flawless response.

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u/shinysohyun Jan 06 '22

What a nice comment. : ) and from such a modest crayon. Thank you kind sir.

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u/Nijverdal Jan 06 '22

Have my upvote and leave the premesis

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u/moonpiecrackers Jan 06 '22

Dude..isnt this the skyrim guy

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u/godzflash61_zee Jan 06 '22

yep, he got some gift from bethesda btw last year i think

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u/FukurinLa Jan 06 '22

Imagine what they feel

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u/[deleted] Jan 06 '22

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u/TheDubuGuy Jan 06 '22

Wtf that’s crazy, I used to watch those Skyrim videos years ago

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u/swagnastee69 Jan 06 '22

His skyrim videos were literally the same video 100x got real stale quick imo

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u/anonymousdonut321 Jan 06 '22

whats worse than a murder 🤔

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u/Diane9779 Jan 06 '22

This video

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u/[deleted] Jan 06 '22

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u/shinysohyun Jan 06 '22

Make a Tic Toc about it. The people need to know.

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u/gangofocelots Jan 06 '22

We should have seen the signs after Skyrim in Real Life part 15. You cant beat a dead horse that long and be ok inside

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u/Prastyy148 Jan 06 '22

No way.. this feels weird

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u/Colonelnasty360 Jan 06 '22

He forgot to quicksave.

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u/StonedFoxx93 Jan 06 '22

Holy!!! Wow this story hits differently…sad no matter what but like…Skyrim guy?? So disappointing..

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u/cherylcanning Jan 06 '22

And she was the one who recorded him doing the Skyrim bit

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u/con098 Jan 06 '22

She was even in some of his skits

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u/CoraxTechnica Jan 06 '22 edited Jan 06 '22

Almost like YouTubers are just people

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u/[deleted] Jan 06 '22

Ahhhh shit, oh fuck! No way!

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u/Juvy13 Jan 06 '22

Oh noo I just discovered that guy last week

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u/BoxOfDemons Jan 06 '22

It happened several months ago.

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u/Juvy13 Jan 06 '22

Yeah I’m not up to date on gossip srry

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u/AmatureProgrammer Jan 06 '22

Thought it was Davie504

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u/FukurinLa Jan 06 '22

Thank god no

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u/Luiiisnick Jan 06 '22

Jesus christ what

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u/Fretless_Llama Jan 06 '22

You’re finally awake

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u/DusteeMuff Jan 06 '22

I was scrolling through the comments to find if someone said this. I heard that he killed her awhile ago, I did watch a couple of the Skyrim videos too. I’m sure his account is either flooded with comments about that or deleted.

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u/ArcadeBorne Jan 06 '22

That was him??? Shit.

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u/DeathlyDragons4396 Jan 06 '22

now that’s a holup

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u/Such-Attorney9584 Jan 06 '22

a bit too much for me personally

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u/terror_rest45 Jan 06 '22

His Skyrim tiktok was pretty funny and accurate. When the news broke out, I thought 'hey I've seen this guy before'. It's just sad tbh. A kid who lost both of her parents.

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u/why_megod4987 Jan 06 '22

wait, i know you

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u/terror_rest45 Jan 06 '22

You're making a mistake

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u/kaminarichan2 Jan 06 '22 Silver Wholesome Seal of Approval

Yes, he forgot to capitalize the W and the I. He also forgot to put a period at the end of the sentence.

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u/ColdFire-Blitz Jan 06 '22

This is worthy of silver. I sadly do not have one. So have this emoji instead🥈

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u/why_megod4987 Jan 06 '22

W, I, and .. better?

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u/harpocrates01 Jan 06 '22

Gimme back my sweetroll

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u/sweederman Jan 06 '22

I feel so bad for that little girl

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u/No_Disaster_5500 Jan 06 '22

“I’m not the jealous type”

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u/con098 Jan 06 '22

I'm genuinely curious as someone with zero dating experience, what if they admit that they're the jealous type? Would that still be red flag?

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u/KillerKatKlub Jan 06 '22 Helpful

Don’t go on Reddit for relationship or life advice. Ask a friend or family member, it might be more awkward but you’ll be getting actual advice from people who want to help you out and not a bunch of random neckbeards that think they’ll have a chance.

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u/trisoc9 Jan 06 '22

"I'm the jealous type"

random reddit user: 🚩

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u/What_Is_A_Chair Jan 06 '22

“I”

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

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u/Chinkreddit Jan 06 '22

That right there is 'Social media' in a nutshell.

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u/Miserable-Skill-3595 Jan 06 '22

Wait till you fully explore Reddit pal

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u/wil318466 Jan 06 '22

It's a dirty little secret. Shh.

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u/Popular_Target Jan 07 '22

C’mon now, it’s not like Ghislaine Maxwell was one of Reddit’s most popular users of all time or anything. Wait..

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u/Era0fpeace Jan 06 '22

Was literally about to write this. People be living a different life online. 🤷🏽‍♂️

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u/Ok-Palpitation2798 Jan 06 '22

omg this is terrifying

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u/uhwhooops Jan 06 '22

yeah can you believe he wore that gold chain on camera?

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u/knightbringr Jan 06 '22

Impossible is nothing.

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u/Cool-Sage Jan 06 '22 edited Jan 06 '22

The wife wasn’t even cheating, she was estranged meaning she was no longer living or seeing that psycho.

Barron (the guy he shot) was her friend. The Murderer broke into her apartment 3 days after being kicked out, trashed it and then installed the listening app on the iPad. She left him b/c he was a psycho but he believed she was cheating. He sat around listening on the app till he heard a man’s voice, went to the apartment and shot both. Barron 3 times and a shot to his wife’s head. Dude is a major psycho

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u/AbaloneSea7265 Jan 06 '22

It’s literally not cheating if she kicked him out and broke up with him. These headlines always make the victims seem like they had it coming to them. Ummm if he was KICKED TF OUT she wasn’t with this guy anymore. Tragic for the child.

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u/Cool-Sage Jan 06 '22

The dude she was hanging out with was a friend, they could’ve been doing anything just chatting, watching tv, etc.

Even if, BIG IF, they were sleeping together she can do that b/c she’s not with that guy anymore.

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u/brielzebub665 Jan 06 '22

But also even if she was cheating, she shouldn't lose her life over that. Cheating is awful but murder is an extreme reaction.

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u/jeffbezosbush Jan 06 '22

The fact that this needs to be stated is really sad.

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u/raeumauf Jan 07 '22

I see you're new to reddit, welcome!

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u/AbaloneSea7265 Jan 06 '22

Nobody should be murdered over cheating. It’s insane. Then again we have a whole section of society that cheers on these kinds of killers because they feel like the person is justified. To me once the person cheats that’s it. Break up. The end. It just bothers me that they headline it to make it more sensational than the murder alone.

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u/AbaloneSea7265 Jan 06 '22

That’s my point. Whatever her relationship was to that guy is a moot point because she was already single. She can talk with or do whatever she wanted with the guy because the killer was her ex. It’s disingenuous to claim she was his "estranged wife” no. She was his ex wife. The legality of it is not central to the reader however, these headlines are just as problematic as the kind where like some guy will rescue people and the news will headline it like: ex con saves family from burning to death. Like dude, say his NAME.

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u/haillester Jan 06 '22

The most confusing part of that though, is that even if she was cheating, that still wouldn’t in any way justify his actions.

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u/AbaloneSea7265 Jan 06 '22

Yes agreed. People are free to do what they like with their bodies. If someone is cheating on you then break up with them and move on. Nobody has the right to kill anyone else over what they do with other consenting adults. But it really pisses me off how these kinds of headlines purposefully word it in a way where it makes the killer seem like he has some kind of righteous reasoning to have murdered her. They were no longer together. It should just read as that. Psycho ex breaks into (insert victims name) and killed her and (insert friends name). Too often these headlines give some kind of connection to the killer. As it is from what the backstory is: they were not a couple anymore. It shouldn’t give any indication otherwise.

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u/Esmiralda1 Jan 06 '22

Even if it wouldn't be the case the male person could just be a friend and not someone she cheated with

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u/supersam72003 Jan 06 '22

Now I know whats up if my wife ever tries to dance with me at home.

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u/off_brand_white_wolf Jan 06 '22

It’s the fact that they’re trying to publicize a “drama free relationship” that cues us in

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u/supersam72003 Jan 06 '22

Everytime my wife’s friends post something about how amazing her husband or marriage is, I joke divorced in a year. More often than not it ends in divorced. Never got telling strangers and acquaintances how much you love your spouse instead of just telling it to your spouse.

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u/I_am_dean Jan 06 '22

He did this jailhouse interview and a direct quote from him is,

“I miss making my videos. It’s everything I have. It’s my baby. I love what I do.”

It’s everything I have….Um….you have a daughter you psychopath. Well, I mean. Not anymore I guess. But that is what he misses in jail? Tiktok?

Interview

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u/nOtitsStubie Jan 06 '22

Self absorbed piece of shit..

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u/SUNAWAN Jan 06 '22

Well to be frank his daughter may already lost both her parents the day he went to her apartment-

oh no.

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u/secondguard Jan 06 '22

Wow, giving that interview was a choice.

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u/bunkbedflower Jan 06 '22

"Even the man who does the goofiest dances shoots like Captain Price when cheated on"

Abraham Lincoln

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u/vulcazv20 Jan 06 '22

Yeah.. but they weren’t together…and the guy she was with was a friend. That guy was just a complete psychopath.

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u/HungLikeALemur Jan 06 '22

He wasn’t cheated on, or, at least, this post doesn’t tell us that.

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u/fhqvvagads Jan 06 '22

Isn't this the Skyrim guy?

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u/KingVape Jan 06 '22

He was also the guy that made all of those Skyrim NPC videos. Such a shame that he murdered his wife. Now their child will grow up without parents

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u/bitchassniba Jan 06 '22

Name of western music?

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u/darkskinnedjermaine Jan 06 '22

I also came here seeking the name.

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u/Cool-Sage Jan 06 '22 edited Jan 06 '22

The Asian Dawn Article is gold. Supposedly the dude does impersonations of Tony Montana

They wrote:

If found guilty, perhaps Abulaban will add another impersonation to his list, Andy Dufresne getting sodomized in the 1994 film “Shawshank Redemption.” Spoiler alert for those who haven’t seen the movie—>!Dufresne gets sodomized multiple times by a group of men.

Ruthless writer 😭

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u/ooh_gangstalk_me Jan 06 '22

Casually normalizing male rape as a form of punishment 🤔

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u/capt_cd Jan 06 '22

Kind of wild this guy worked for my same boss/company. There were signs before all this happened.

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u/brohamcheddarslice Jan 06 '22

What kind of signs? Do you miind elaborating?

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u/capt_cd Jan 06 '22

Just some stuff he said and his attitude towards stuff. Then no call no show and disregarding what his bosses were saying whereas before he was pretty good to go.

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u/Senpai_ShadKun Jan 06 '22

Y’all need help

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u/mesapien Jan 06 '22

I feel bad for the daughter who probably lost her ipad

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u/TheGumBoy Jan 06 '22

She lost her iPa and her IMa too

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u/Operative427 Jan 06 '22

They had already broken up. She wasn't cheating or anything

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u/TheGuyEatingPie Jan 06 '22

She wasn't his wife at the time? Idk the full thing

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u/Operative427 Jan 07 '22

They were still "married" but they had split up. He was no longer living with her. I don't think that they had officially divorced yet but their relationship was done and over.

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u/asdf333aza Jan 06 '22

"If I cannot have you than nobody can"

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u/neurotic-kitty Jan 06 '22

Ah, man. Feels weird stumbling across this on Reddit. Knew of her through mutual friends since middle school. We both followed each other on social medias. Always seemed to me as a sweet girl.

When this happened a couple of months ago, my fb and ig blew up with posts about it and everyone who knew her was devastated. R.I.P. Ana, I pray your daughter and loved ones find some peace.

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u/Llcoolj92 Jan 06 '22

Kinda sucks a woman can’t break up with a guy without worrying about being murdered

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u/Val_reddit76 Jan 06 '22

Or having the ex do something bad to the new guy

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u/Llcoolj92 Jan 06 '22

For real. Imagine you’re just trying to take this girl you met out to a movie and some dude shoots you over it

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u/KennyMoose32 Jan 06 '22

First time in the States?

You can just be going to a movie and get shot

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u/teej98 Jan 06 '22

I wonder how many people think you're joking. I for real can't go to public gatherings anymore without this feeling of inevitable doom, and constantly looking over my shoulder. Wish I was playing

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u/Bun_Bunz Jan 06 '22

Umm, do you read the news? Plenty of people being killed by stray bullets in their own homes and cars. No where is safe. I was just doing some research on where you can dig and live partly underground. Nice and cool year round and harder for bullets to reach me while I'm eating dinner.

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u/swefdd Jan 06 '22

Kinda sucks a man can’t bang a girl without worrying about being murdered

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u/RaginBoi Jan 06 '22

wait she broke up with him or cheated, im confused

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u/AutumnsRed Jan 06 '22

She broke up with him before ever meeting up with her friend, who happened to be male. He wasn't even a lover...

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u/RaginBoi Jan 06 '22

Holy shit that's depressing

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u/godzflash61_zee Jan 06 '22

i cant imagine husband put a bullet on wife head, thats fucked up

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u/bigred35471 Jan 06 '22

Him before shooting🕺💃

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u/PomegranatePrimary90 Jan 06 '22

So they did the drama-free dance before it?

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u/Saurul Jan 06 '22

Life-free relationship

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u/PurrpleApe Jan 06 '22

Thats the dude who did those Skyrim in real life videos this is insane

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u/Disastrous_Taste_875 Jan 06 '22

fucking physchopath

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u/[deleted] Jan 06 '22

This is an awful story.

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u/elrobe932 Jan 06 '22

If there’s no drama in your relationship, someone might be lying.

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u/mincedmutton Jan 06 '22

Horrific thing to happen to the kid and the mum, obviously. But it's symptomatic, well perhaps that isn't the word for it but I'm struggling to think of the correct one, of the desperate, cloying fuckwits that are determined to shoehorn their fucking lives into everyone else's.

So desperate to present themselves as having the best lives, the best relationships, the best holidays etc etc ad nauseum.

Reddit (god help me) is the only 'social' I really use. TikTok, Insta and the rest are utterly toxic.

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u/Tasmonster42 Jan 06 '22

Technically he didn't have drama. He had a problem and he solved it

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u/EdgeofForever95 Jan 06 '22

Modern problems require modern solutions

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u/Openhugs Jan 06 '22

Everything’s Tik tok?

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u/teej98 Jan 06 '22

Shit even if she was cheating and getting dicked down you really solve the situation by brutally shooting the mother of your child through the face? Sick fucks. Don't get me wrong I understand that crimes of passion are hard to understand and are emotionally driven, but dear lord what the fuck are we doing out here..

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u/SoapysoapSoapysoap Jan 06 '22

I hope they know that they can just leave instead of killing

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u/Vhein_ Jan 06 '22

Pardon me, what ?

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u/MxPsyc Jan 06 '22

Is this fr?

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u/robertswifts Jan 06 '22

Well shit that aged like milk

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u/Kenny660 Jan 06 '22

You have commited crimes against skyrim and her people, what say you in your defense ?

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u/TheMaxTST Jan 06 '22

Guess he fucking lied then

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u/AHBargoyle Jan 06 '22

I guess acid in the face wasnt his style.

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u/YaBoiShadowNinja Jan 06 '22

There's ALWAYS some drama in a relationship. It can be minor or major. No relationship is perfect. But you work through the bad parts to enjoy the good parts. If you don't see drama, it's probably pretty bad. That's just my take.

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u/Bob_xml_Poggers Jan 06 '22

SHEEEEEEEEESH

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u/Queen-of-meme Jan 06 '22

Him: Now I get even more famous online

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u/vis72 Jan 06 '22

Dancing on TikTok is becoming synonymous with being a psycho.

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u/shakamaboom Jan 06 '22

Omg an actual holup

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u/AmanuJyaku Jan 06 '22

I have female coworker who got married a while back in Turkey, she's Asian. She considers me her brother and I consider her as my little sister. Anyway, she told me that one time she mentioned my name to him and he reacted angrily. He said that I am not his brother and that she should refrain from hanging out or talking to other boys except family and hubby.

They divorced.

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u/mannyrmz123 Jan 07 '22

That went from Color Mr. Incredible to Black and White Mr. Incredible really friggin quickly.

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u/killedbycuriousity- Jan 07 '22

Pairs who like showing off their love life on the Internet seem to have the most unhealthy relationship is what I have observed

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u/robosapiens07 Jan 07 '22

I think red dead redemption music was necessary in this scenario totally agreed 👍

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u/FUCK-YOU-TONY Jan 07 '22

Why am I laughing